Wednesday, October 26, 2016

5 Reasons To Become Surrogate Mother



Once surrogacy was all over the world was not accepted the way it is accepted nowadays. However, with the modernization of technology, the mentality of society has also changed towards surrogacy. Surrogacy in India and in some other countries is legally and commercially accepted. However, in some of the countries the commercial surrogacy is not yet accepted. However, there is a growing trend found that young women are willing let their wombs to else either against of money or sometime for nothing.  Here, I will point out 5 reasons why girl are becoming surrogates willingly.
Financial Reward: Yes, one of the main reasons for girls to take surrogacy willingly is the heavy monetary reward that is being offered. However, it cannot be treated as a service fee but still getting a good amount of money can help the surrogates to fulfill their dreams. Married women can fulfill lot of unfulfilled dreams associated with the family Such as buying a new house or car or to give their children a better education. However, in case of the unmarried girls they use the money to fulfill career goals. They can use the money to get higher education or to set up their own business. Whatever, the reason it may be but financial reward is one of the biggest driving agent behind to get surrogate mother.
Precious Gift: The monetary compensation is a big player behind opting surrogacy for many of the women. Yet giving a precious gift to someone is also instigation behind it. Surrogacy is generally availed by the couples who fail to conceive in biological process. The surrogate mother carries the baby in her womb and gives them the beautiful gift of parent hood. A boy becomes father or a girl becomes mother and no money can buy this happiness. A surrogate mother can only give this type of gift.
Self Confidence: It can be seen in both ways, to become a surrogate mother one needs a immense self-confidence and when one gives birth to a child with whom she won’t have a biological connection boost up the confidence on a different level. Giving birth to another’s child gives the feel of making another family complete. Thus, not only married women but single women are also willingly give their womb to let.
Being Mother Again: It is generally said that to being the mother is the best thing that can happen to a women.  The woman who is already became pregnant want to get the feel for again. However, in this situation, they may not want to take the responsibility of the child but to feel the motherhood, surrogacy is the best option for them. Therefore, these people willingly engaged into surrogacy.
Role Model: Becoming a surrogate mother is not that easy decision as it looks like. However, those who take the decision can surely present them as the role model for others. Those married woman who takes the decision to be the surrogate are generally considered as role models as they used to overcome all the odds and become surrogate mother. Especially the unmarried girls as in spite of different social obligation they choose to become surrogates.
Therefore, these are primarily reasons for which a woman generally opt for surrogacy. However, there are also some issues that are related with surrogacy. Often it is found that though no biological relation shared with the child the surrogate mother develops a special relation with child and refuse to give the child to biological parents. In additionally, clinics take the advantage of poverty, exploit the poor women, and use them as surrogates. However, still surrogacy is on the rise and is one of best solution for the childless couples.

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